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[ravena_kade]

Spent a great deal of the night in the ER. A friend who fell on 12/23 finally decided to go to the ER to get X-rays.

Spend too much of the year seeking forgiveness for something I didn't do and something that I had to do... I need to accept that it isn't coming.

The best thing of the year has to be my cat. He is an affectionate little thing and a lovely companion.

Comments

[gwendraith]

I hope your friend is okay.

All you need is to forgive yourself, whether others forgive you or not is their problem, imo.

Your little cat is a blessing, just as mine are :)

Happy New Year. x

[chris_warrior]

if this is your mom's illness, IMVHO you need to try to accept that you don't need forgiveness; you did all the right things, you did the best you could, and sometimes things go pie-wise anyway.

if this is a friend thing, the yeah - sometimes other people don't offer forgiveness. sometimes we don't offer forgiveness to friends. it's a two-way street. i feel like Gwen is right: in the end you need to forgive yourself and move on.

[ravena_kade]

Mostly a Ma thing. She was so angry at me when she died...I didn't know how to do things right and when I did what she would have wanted it just broke my heart.

[brickhousewench]

Spend too much of the year seeking forgiveness for something I didn't do and something that I had to do...

The only person who can forgive you is yourself.

Forgive yourself.