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Feb. 21st, 2026 08:59 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
ravena_kadeSooooo.....Dad goes in Tuesday and is watched and fine tuned for the procedure on Thursday. Thursday at 6;45 he is the first surgery of the day and they will apple core out his heart. Sigh. Part of me thinks Cyberman from Dr. Who. A friend said think Ironman...sure...but we are not rich people... although I would love a Jarvis.
The snow coming on Monday has me worried. A foot to 2 feet of snow. I am really not up to shoveling 2 feet of snow for 2 cars to fit in the driveway. My sister cannot park in front of the house now as we still have a 3 foot by 4 ft deep plow packed snow at the street. I also don't think her partner can make the swing into the driveway because of the snow mounds. Dad can, because he is still a super driver... and I hope he will be for a few more years.
Last night I had some hard news about the stroke cousin. She is moving into an assisted living place that I can walk to...that is not the bad news. Her sisters found out yesterday that her bank accounts are all overdrawn and she has had no money for a week for undergarments... think about that...or not. They also found out that she transferred $100,000 out of her 401k and that Well Fargo has no trail of where the money went. WTF. Cancer cousin is a vice president at a bank and cried BS and will bring a bank lawyer in to find out where the money went. OMG. They figured out that her social security and the pay outs from one annuity will cover her new rent...and that includes 3 meals a day at her new place. They are going to have to get power of attorney over their sister. Also, she has maxed out all credit cards. She spent $19000 on Amazon since November. It is so sad. It breaks my heart and scares the crap out of me.
The snow coming on Monday has me worried. A foot to 2 feet of snow. I am really not up to shoveling 2 feet of snow for 2 cars to fit in the driveway. My sister cannot park in front of the house now as we still have a 3 foot by 4 ft deep plow packed snow at the street. I also don't think her partner can make the swing into the driveway because of the snow mounds. Dad can, because he is still a super driver... and I hope he will be for a few more years.
Last night I had some hard news about the stroke cousin. She is moving into an assisted living place that I can walk to...that is not the bad news. Her sisters found out yesterday that her bank accounts are all overdrawn and she has had no money for a week for undergarments... think about that...or not. They also found out that she transferred $100,000 out of her 401k and that Well Fargo has no trail of where the money went. WTF. Cancer cousin is a vice president at a bank and cried BS and will bring a bank lawyer in to find out where the money went. OMG. They figured out that her social security and the pay outs from one annuity will cover her new rent...and that includes 3 meals a day at her new place. They are going to have to get power of attorney over their sister. Also, she has maxed out all credit cards. She spent $19000 on Amazon since November. It is so sad. It breaks my heart and scares the crap out of me.
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Date: 2026-02-21 04:00 pm (UTC)They definitely need to get that power of attorney. :o
It's going to hurt her, but it's obviously needed. :(
I hope they can figure out where that money went. :o
Cybermen? Ironman?
I was thinking Roto Rooter Man. lol...
Sorry, I couldn't resist. :)
HUGS, Jon
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