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Jul. 30th, 2024 08:33 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
ravena_kadeMy 95 year old aunt fell and is in a rehab.
The lead cousin texted me at 7:30 this morning saying that Cancer Cousin was okay. IN the night their Mom fell and broke her arm high up and they don't operate on that. She was waiting for a CT scan of her head to make sure there are no brain injuries. I asked to be kept in the loop and let me know if we could do anything. I could bring food to the sisters at home if they needed it.
5:00PM no word. I texted the oldest sister. She was at the house with her other sisters. She confirmed that my aunt broke her arm high up and that they were not home. She said that my aunt would be going into a rehab. She said that the cancer cousin went hysterical when my Aunt was howling in pain. She was going tp get the lead sister and follow an ambulance to a rehab. They went to the hospital at 2AM and she got to the rehab at 8 PM.
I have to admit my heart sank when I read rehab. They had vowed not to have their Mom in a rehab since she was in one 10 years ago and they let her wonder around 3 days after spine surgery and she fell.
Her break is where my Mom broke her arm. They don't splint it, but yet it moves and the patient will scream in pain. I remember. 9/11 a broken arm. Election Day Dead.
I have no idea why she is in a rehab. She always goes to a doctor. Perhaps they thought they couldn't watch her and the sister with the cancer at the same time.
I offered to sit with my Aunt when we know more... as long as she wasn' in the same place my Mom was. I could not deal with that. She isn't. I'm glad. They didn't visit my Mom. That has always angered me, but c'est la vie. I will go. My aunt is my last connection I have with my Mom...well except sometimes when I am cursing like a storm, like she did, and I hear her.
The lead cousin texted me at 7:30 this morning saying that Cancer Cousin was okay. IN the night their Mom fell and broke her arm high up and they don't operate on that. She was waiting for a CT scan of her head to make sure there are no brain injuries. I asked to be kept in the loop and let me know if we could do anything. I could bring food to the sisters at home if they needed it.
5:00PM no word. I texted the oldest sister. She was at the house with her other sisters. She confirmed that my aunt broke her arm high up and that they were not home. She said that my aunt would be going into a rehab. She said that the cancer cousin went hysterical when my Aunt was howling in pain. She was going tp get the lead sister and follow an ambulance to a rehab. They went to the hospital at 2AM and she got to the rehab at 8 PM.
I have to admit my heart sank when I read rehab. They had vowed not to have their Mom in a rehab since she was in one 10 years ago and they let her wonder around 3 days after spine surgery and she fell.
Her break is where my Mom broke her arm. They don't splint it, but yet it moves and the patient will scream in pain. I remember. 9/11 a broken arm. Election Day Dead.
I have no idea why she is in a rehab. She always goes to a doctor. Perhaps they thought they couldn't watch her and the sister with the cancer at the same time.
I offered to sit with my Aunt when we know more... as long as she wasn' in the same place my Mom was. I could not deal with that. She isn't. I'm glad. They didn't visit my Mom. That has always angered me, but c'est la vie. I will go. My aunt is my last connection I have with my Mom...well except sometimes when I am cursing like a storm, like she did, and I hear her.
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Date: 2024-07-31 02:01 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-07-31 11:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-07-31 08:10 pm (UTC)And I feel that that household will the first Apocalypse cannibals' meal because of the lacking communication skills *shakes head*
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Date: 2024-07-31 11:19 pm (UTC)I hope she will heal quickly and get home quicker.
HUGS, Jon