Dad gained a pound last night.
He still went out to breakfast. at 6:30 AM. Didn't come home until 9:45
I wanted to give him some meds, but he should stay home incase it changes his BP.
He then went out at 10 AM with the cousins to look at cars today. They feel they wont get mansplained if they have a guy with them. Okay. I said that if they go out for lunch come and get me they come back to this area. We haven't gone food shopping because he was at the cousins from 3:30 yesterday afternoon to 10:30 at night.
I get a text saying they left the car dealership. They were there 3 hours. Cousin bought a car. Text was to ask what he could have for lunch.
20 minutes later I get a call from Dad. They are at a restaurant in the town I live in... with traffic 15 minutes away. Dad asked if he could get me anything and bring it home. NO. He asked if I ate. I said it doesn't MATTER.
They couldn't just come and get me? Fuck if they said where they were headed I could have met them there. I have been talking about going to that particular restaurant for weeks as Dad has never been there.
It all seems to be on purpose.
He still went out to breakfast. at 6:30 AM. Didn't come home until 9:45
I wanted to give him some meds, but he should stay home incase it changes his BP.
He then went out at 10 AM with the cousins to look at cars today. They feel they wont get mansplained if they have a guy with them. Okay. I said that if they go out for lunch come and get me they come back to this area. We haven't gone food shopping because he was at the cousins from 3:30 yesterday afternoon to 10:30 at night.
I get a text saying they left the car dealership. They were there 3 hours. Cousin bought a car. Text was to ask what he could have for lunch.
20 minutes later I get a call from Dad. They are at a restaurant in the town I live in... with traffic 15 minutes away. Dad asked if he could get me anything and bring it home. NO. He asked if I ate. I said it doesn't MATTER.
They couldn't just come and get me? Fuck if they said where they were headed I could have met them there. I have been talking about going to that particular restaurant for weeks as Dad has never been there.
It all seems to be on purpose.
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Date: 2023-08-26 07:46 pm (UTC)Maybe they need to take charge of him and leave you to get on with your own life!
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Date: 2023-08-26 09:40 pm (UTC)You deserve better.
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Date: 2023-08-27 06:53 pm (UTC)Your family is awful. I'm so sorry they're so horrible to you. =(
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Date: 2023-08-26 11:12 pm (UTC)OMg, That is beyond maddening. :o
HUGS, Jon