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Aug. 20th, 2023 06:18 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
ravena_kadeYesterday I went to Cranes beach. The beach was lovely but my mood soured by noon and I could not get off the beach until 2 PM.
My cousins pinged my phone. I don't ignore because it could be that Dad has flopped. Nope. Iy was what do I want him to eat today. Umm I made him a lovely salad. Did he not bring it? They decided to go to the Indiana Jones movie at a place that shows movies and serves food. The original plan was he was going over to watch the baseball game after lunch and stay and watch the football game. Since it was a sports day I felt okay about going north. But they decided to do this and the restaurant part of the movie place serves only fast food. Pizza. Hamburgers... stuff like that. They ask me what he can eat so it absolves them of any guilt if he flops. I cant even get away for an afternoon...
That and I was mad (am mad) that they couldn't wait for me to go see the only movie I would have wanted to see in a theater in a very very long time. The habit now if that they do things when I am busy and when I am home they lay around in recliners and watch sports. I know it's deliberate. I don't dare call them out on it because that is where my Dad wants to be... more than doing things I like to do. And if something happens to me they would get him to his dr appointments and stuff and help him sell the house.
My cousins pinged my phone. I don't ignore because it could be that Dad has flopped. Nope. Iy was what do I want him to eat today. Umm I made him a lovely salad. Did he not bring it? They decided to go to the Indiana Jones movie at a place that shows movies and serves food. The original plan was he was going over to watch the baseball game after lunch and stay and watch the football game. Since it was a sports day I felt okay about going north. But they decided to do this and the restaurant part of the movie place serves only fast food. Pizza. Hamburgers... stuff like that. They ask me what he can eat so it absolves them of any guilt if he flops. I cant even get away for an afternoon...
That and I was mad (am mad) that they couldn't wait for me to go see the only movie I would have wanted to see in a theater in a very very long time. The habit now if that they do things when I am busy and when I am home they lay around in recliners and watch sports. I know it's deliberate. I don't dare call them out on it because that is where my Dad wants to be... more than doing things I like to do. And if something happens to me they would get him to his dr appointments and stuff and help him sell the house.
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Date: 2023-08-20 12:00 pm (UTC)You should say "take him for food with salt and it's on your head" and hang up.
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Date: 2023-08-21 04:39 am (UTC)You should have told them, Let him eat whatever he wants and then make a stop at the ER on your way home.
UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HUGS, Jon