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[ravena_kade]

I am about ready to stab my sister and her S/O.

All I want is someone at the hospital with Dad at noon. Where are they now? In my kitchen. What time is it...12:14.

The s/o is having work computer trouble with her VPN. That is fine. But my sister could get to the hospital the same way I do. and could have been there at Noon. Its a lovely day. If you care for someone who is in the hospital as much as you say then you GET THERE.

I thought they would be here in the morning so I could move some stuff out of Dads room that is too awkward for me alone. That is all I asked.

She mentioned that she wanted to stay a day or too longer to help. HELP? HELP? I said it was okay I can handle it. It was hard for me not to just throw them out.

I called Dad to see if he was hungry. He said he was fine. He asked where my sister was. I said in the kitchen. He said they should wait for me since I am going over at 1PM by train. I cant get into the car with them as my mood is somewhere between surly and murderous.

Comments

[cmcmck]

WTF is wrong with them?

[ravena_kade]

Their heads are up their ass?

Although...hey they get to go on vacations and buy stuff and do EXACTLY what they want.

[disneydream06]

I cant get into the car with them as my mood is somewhere between surly and murderous.
I don't blame you at all. :o :o :o
Hugs, Jon

[gwendraith]

It's apity we can't choose our relations!

[ravena_kade]

Its sad because if you met her she is supper sweet... We worked together at the insurance company and she was the "Nice Sister"

She is just so tied up in another world... and if her s/o is a lump then my sister is a lump as well. The s/o is nice but is like moving a mountain. The speed where they live is slow and stop. And I don't work that way.

It also irks me that Im the one without a car and I get to commitments just as fast and keep my promises and plans.

[chris_warrior]

i'm sorry to say it, and i hope i'm wrong, but just- seeing how selfish your sibling is, i hope matters with the house are written down in some sort of legal document, in case anything happens to your Dad. reading what you write about her and her SO has me worried for you and your living situation going forward. <3

[ravena_kade]

when we bout the house everything was worded that one one person passed their third would go to the other 2 and when the second passed their part would go to the survivor. My sister is not on any of it.

When I hit an age and if I am alone I will probably reverse mortgage it so no one will get it, or leave it to the animal shelter or some other charity.

[fbhjr]

Sorry for the lack of support.

[chris_warrior]

i think you told me that before, not that i think about it, but it's a relief to hear it again. <3 *HUG* man, i wish they were being more helpful.

[guy_todd]

I say stab away! (see appropriate icon) ;-)