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Nov. 1st, 2022 07:13 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
ravena_kadeDad had his pacemaker installed. They closed him up at 6 PM.
Tonight my sister was supposed to help me with food shopping and other things then we would go out to eat.
It's after 7. She isn't here and hasn't been here. She called and said she'd be here after 8 PM. Umm forget it. I said don't bother coming over. She's coming pick up something she left and wants to make dinner. Ummm.. I have no food defrosted. Fuck This. Some help. People say I need to ask for help...but this is what I get.
My phone was non stop today. I wanted to throw it down the garbage disposal. Only 1 call for me from a friend.
I cannot get my Dad any dr appointments in my city. I have to arrange rides. It bothers me. I get grief. I think I help a lot of people and so if a ride is needed for a very good reason I should be okay for asking for that type of help. My parents never got grief for not taking us to doctors or dentists... I was 20 before I went to a dentist and 30 before I would see a doctor.
Tonight my sister was supposed to help me with food shopping and other things then we would go out to eat.
It's after 7. She isn't here and hasn't been here. She called and said she'd be here after 8 PM. Umm forget it. I said don't bother coming over. She's coming pick up something she left and wants to make dinner. Ummm.. I have no food defrosted. Fuck This. Some help. People say I need to ask for help...but this is what I get.
My phone was non stop today. I wanted to throw it down the garbage disposal. Only 1 call for me from a friend.
I cannot get my Dad any dr appointments in my city. I have to arrange rides. It bothers me. I get grief. I think I help a lot of people and so if a ride is needed for a very good reason I should be okay for asking for that type of help. My parents never got grief for not taking us to doctors or dentists... I was 20 before I went to a dentist and 30 before I would see a doctor.
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Date: 2022-11-02 01:01 am (UTC)Sorry for the rest of it!
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Date: 2022-11-02 01:35 am (UTC)The rest of all of this? Yeah that can all go fuck off a cliff.
Maybe you should give some grief to your sister for being incapable of "helping"
or see if she could just give you money so you can "buy groceries" instead of "depending on" her or "asking for help" although I also realize asking for just money and not "help" will make the situation worse
I'm sorry you're being dragged through for this.
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Date: 2022-11-02 01:54 am (UTC)I feel your pain.
I should be asking for help to, but why should I when it hasn't been there up to this point.
I hate to say it, but I think I am getting really close to having to put dad in a nursing home. :( :( :(
Hugs, Jon
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Date: 2022-11-02 10:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-11-02 12:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-11-02 12:35 pm (UTC)Boo stupid sister!!
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Date: 2022-11-02 03:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-11-04 07:18 pm (UTC)I'm late a lot, but I'm never THAT late! Good lord, does she have zero sense of time? *face palm*
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Date: 2022-11-05 11:32 am (UTC)The one thing I asked her to do yesterday was wash the new patio door windows when they come back but I stay longer at the hospital. Are they done? Nope. She feels she needs to go to a shoot to by a squeegee to wash them and there was too much traffic to get to the store.