I want my Mother
Sep. 27th, 2022 07:14 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
ravena_kadeI want my Mother. I am in a mood and she would understand.
Soooo......
Earlier this spring a big deal was made by the Texas Uncle to come home for my Dad's 80th Birthday. Not said tp me but to my Sister and her s/o in Milwaukee. I told the cousins...that morphed into me having a party for my Dad. I never wanted a party. I told my Mother that we would have Birthday cake for my Dad when she came home in a few days... and instead I have to sign paperwork to let her die...so...I dont really do Birthday..I do Lobster day or week...or whatever. It's a thing. But I was bullied by the cousins to have a party for him. Sigh. My sister is coming home and its good for everyone to see everyone. We lost my aunt Teresa in January and it was rough... and so okay... Sigh. Then there is the thing that I cant have one of my Mother's Bothers and not the other one who lives 3 blocks away from me... and it is his Birthday the same day and his Anniversary the same day... So I call to invite them to a gathering...because Texas Uncle and my Sister are coming home... and I get a bit of snark that pissed me off, but I swallowed it. And the cousins keep wanting me to make this bigger and invite more people my Dad could care less that he sees.. and I have order food... and then my sister tells me she really doesnt want to go to anything that is a crowd... and I said EXCUSE ME... but we worked it out...
Today I get my Birthday card from the Texas Uncle.. 2 months late. There is a family joke with that, but its okay... But there is a note in my card that says. "Happy Birthday. Late as usual. Will call you. We are going to plan a trip up in the spring"
Ummm... a phone call would have been nice.
Also... If a big deal wasn't made about my Dad's 80th then I wouldn't have been bullied into a party. I wouldn't be paying for food. I wouldn't be dealing with snarky aunts. I could have just made Dd a chocolate cream pie and been happy. He'd be happy as we are getting him a bigger TV for his birthday...
I have a friend that is calling me at 8 to let me rant... but...
I am just fed up. Im pissed off.
I want my Mother.
and ..sure come in the spring when everyone will be in North Carolina.
Soooo......
Earlier this spring a big deal was made by the Texas Uncle to come home for my Dad's 80th Birthday. Not said tp me but to my Sister and her s/o in Milwaukee. I told the cousins...that morphed into me having a party for my Dad. I never wanted a party. I told my Mother that we would have Birthday cake for my Dad when she came home in a few days... and instead I have to sign paperwork to let her die...so...I dont really do Birthday..I do Lobster day or week...or whatever. It's a thing. But I was bullied by the cousins to have a party for him. Sigh. My sister is coming home and its good for everyone to see everyone. We lost my aunt Teresa in January and it was rough... and so okay... Sigh. Then there is the thing that I cant have one of my Mother's Bothers and not the other one who lives 3 blocks away from me... and it is his Birthday the same day and his Anniversary the same day... So I call to invite them to a gathering...because Texas Uncle and my Sister are coming home... and I get a bit of snark that pissed me off, but I swallowed it. And the cousins keep wanting me to make this bigger and invite more people my Dad could care less that he sees.. and I have order food... and then my sister tells me she really doesnt want to go to anything that is a crowd... and I said EXCUSE ME... but we worked it out...
Today I get my Birthday card from the Texas Uncle.. 2 months late. There is a family joke with that, but its okay... But there is a note in my card that says. "Happy Birthday. Late as usual. Will call you. We are going to plan a trip up in the spring"
Ummm... a phone call would have been nice.
Also... If a big deal wasn't made about my Dad's 80th then I wouldn't have been bullied into a party. I wouldn't be paying for food. I wouldn't be dealing with snarky aunts. I could have just made Dd a chocolate cream pie and been happy. He'd be happy as we are getting him a bigger TV for his birthday...
I have a friend that is calling me at 8 to let me rant... but...
I am just fed up. Im pissed off.
I want my Mother.
and ..sure come in the spring when everyone will be in North Carolina.
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