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Apr. 11th, 2025 05:04 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
ravena_kadeAy 6 AM my phone rings. The phone says it's my Auntie Marylee. This is my Dad's sister. The Voice is crying and screaming. I can't tell who it is. What is wrong...what is wrong... calm down. It wasn't my aunt it was her daughter. My aunt was taken away by ambulance. The cousin was high so the ambulance people wouldn't let her go with them. She is trying to find my Aunt Thomasina, but can't reach her. Auntie Thomasina doesn't wake up until 11 or noon. Her cell phone is off. The cousin wanted my Dad. My Dad is useless with this stuff. I called my Dad who gave me Thomasina's home phone and I called and woke my Aunt's husband. They would take it from there. 20 minutes later my Aunt was at my Dad's for and they went to Everette Hospital to find out what is going on.
At noon I get a call from Dad. My Aunt is in a coma. Thomasina and one of the daughters are the health care proxies. Dad was leaving because he said it was a shit show. It must have been a circus because my Dad doesn't mind the chaos of my other cousins (My Mother's side) There were 30 people waiting to see the unconscious Aunt. And said all 4 of my Aunt's kids were drunk of stoned. They brought all the grand kids and great grand kids. They were arguing about insurance money. They were arguing about ignoring my Aunt's DNR. Dad said he wanted to punch someone...
I asked if he wanted to go home. I would leave work if he was upset (he was very upset when my cousin died in January) He said he wanted to go back to work. My Aunt's husband also wanted to punch people so he took Dad back to work and told Thomasina to call him when se wanted to go home.
All of this crazy is telling me to DO WHAT I NEED TO DO. Time is not ours.
Tomorrow I want to see my Aunt Thomasina. She is 86. I am sad I did not get to see Marylee recently. It is hard as we cannot ket her kids know our addresses because they have broken into other relatives homes.
At noon I get a call from Dad. My Aunt is in a coma. Thomasina and one of the daughters are the health care proxies. Dad was leaving because he said it was a shit show. It must have been a circus because my Dad doesn't mind the chaos of my other cousins (My Mother's side) There were 30 people waiting to see the unconscious Aunt. And said all 4 of my Aunt's kids were drunk of stoned. They brought all the grand kids and great grand kids. They were arguing about insurance money. They were arguing about ignoring my Aunt's DNR. Dad said he wanted to punch someone...
I asked if he wanted to go home. I would leave work if he was upset (he was very upset when my cousin died in January) He said he wanted to go back to work. My Aunt's husband also wanted to punch people so he took Dad back to work and told Thomasina to call him when se wanted to go home.
All of this crazy is telling me to DO WHAT I NEED TO DO. Time is not ours.
Tomorrow I want to see my Aunt Thomasina. She is 86. I am sad I did not get to see Marylee recently. It is hard as we cannot ket her kids know our addresses because they have broken into other relatives homes.
